So recently i have been realizing that i am ready to be in a relationship again, and there is a lot of pressure from some friends to get a girlfriend, i realize that i want a girlfriend, but i dont just want to be in a relationship to say i am in a relationship, because if i did, i would be in one, i want to really want to be with that person, and i want to love that person, not just the idea of them. i have been single for nine months, and i think i am finally ready again, but there is still so much waiting, because i need to find that right person. so i guess what i am saying is make sure you love someone before you get serious, that you really love them, and not just the idea of them...

-Nicole.