Dear Dykes,

I'm in a bit of a pickle. When it comes to sex, I can't decide if I should be using hardware or just my fingers (you know, the good old-fashioned way). What do you think?

- Lisa

The Dykes Say...

Sarah: Hi, Lisa. I'm assuming by "hardware" you mean vibrators, etc. and not in fact implements from a home improvement store. I hope, anyway.

Jill: Fingers all the way! But that's probably because I'm just too ticklish for anything else.

Sarah: In all seriousness, you should probably talk to your girlfriend about this. Or hey, just try both and see which makes her scream louder.

Jill: Good luck, darlin'.